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Category: LOVE 501: Love Myths & Barriers

Love Barrier Types

June 12, 2015 Shaun Roundy Leave a comment

If you don’t love more (and, by definition, you don’t), it’s probably due to one (or two) of two things:…

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Second-Hand Love

June 10, 2015 Shaun Roundy Leave a comment

To learn to love more, knowledge and explanations are not enough. You must experience love for yourself. That’s why most…

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Learned Limits

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On one hand, love is an absolute. It is what it is, and it’s powerful, abundant, and infinite. On the…

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Posted in: LOVE 201: How to Love, LOVE 301: Love Yourself, LOVE 501: Love Myths & Barriers, The University of Love

The Burden of Love

June 9, 2015 Shaun Roundy Leave a comment

One reason we don’t choose to love more is that we’re afraid that love will be a burden. We’re afraid…

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Romantic Love Counterfeits

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Romantic love is one of the most powerful forces on earth, and because it’s also quite complex and confusing, several…

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Posted in: LOVE 401: Romantic Love, LOVE 501: Love Myths & Barriers, The University of Love

The Ego Police

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Society teaches us that it’s wrong to love yourself, and we often believe it. They call it selfish, egotistical, arrogant,…

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Posted in: LOVE 301: Love Yourself, LOVE 501: Love Myths & Barriers, The University of Love

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Everyone knows that “love is the answer” and would love to "drown in the sea of love," but nobody seems to get quite enough of it. That’s because – until now – we’ve done a terribly poor job of teaching exactly how to love and be loved.

We say, “Be kind. Be patient. You’ll know it when you feel it,” and leave it at that.

That changes now with the University of Life ongoing tutorial on how to love and be loved. The following articles will show you the steps...but it's up to you to put them into practice!

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If you want to know what makes life good, look to feelings. Everything you crave in live – love, peace, joy, hope, happiness, pleasure, relief, satisfaction – are feelings. Everything else – money, relationships, toys, careers – is just a tool to secure those feelings.

Feelings motivate your actions – and inaction – by rewarding or deterring you - and thus control your destiny, for better or worse.

Feelings also have a dark side. Fear, worry, discouragement, anxiety, anger, hatred, discomfort and others crush your happiness, create conflict in your relationships, and paralyze your potential.

The following articles provide instructions to help you recognize, understand, and master your feelings so they can support your goals rather than destroying your happiness and success.

Identity Matters

How you see yourself – your worth, personality, abilities, and your core – influences your quality of life more than any other concept, so it’s worth your time to give it a tune up!

Your sense of identity tells you where you belong in society, how much money you will earn, how much love you deserve, and what efforts will or won’t work out.

The good news is that your sense of identity is flawed and your true identity is much, much better than your limited sense of identity. The following articles help you understand your identity and what you can do about it better. The clearer your sense becomes, the more effortlessly and naturally you'll gravitate toward your real potential.

Spirituality Matters!

The human experience has four facets: physical, mental, emotional and spiritual. Each aspect of your identity offers gifts, opportunities, and challenges, though some get more attention than others.

Your physical presence can scarcely be ignored. Not only does it make its needs known in very blatant ways, but society focuses heavily on its appearance and condition. Your mind and emotions also play well-known roles in the human experience.

Your spiritual nature, however, is more subtle. Its needs are real and crucial for your well being, but they can easily go unnoticed or attributed to the other three divisions of self. There’s a good chance you’ve been neglecting your spiritual nature, to the detriment of your peace and prosperity.

Spirituality means different things to different people, and the following articles provide key insights and applications to help you explore and make the most of your inherently spiritual nature, regardless of your personal belief system.

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